Here are some books specifically related to Adoption. You can find others on this blog by looking at the labels section. Look for adoption books.
Adoption and race for parents:
while it is still a kitten by Nancy Thomas (the book is not particularly focused on Christians but I hear she is a Christian) I found this book to be a complimentary (to the Deborah Gray's book) list of attachment signs to look for and practical ideas for attachment. It is more of a booklet. I do not know anything about her particular theory's as this book does not address that.
Attaching in adoption by Deborah Grey
I'm chocolate you're vanilla by Marguerite A. Wright
Before You were mine (on making a Christian life book)*
Twenty Things Adopted Kids wish their parents knew by Sherrie Eldridge
There is no me without you by Melissa Fay Green
Toddler Adoption, the Weaver's Craft by Hopkins-Best we have read this one and it was very helpful
Parenting your adopted older child
Our own: adopting an older child
Older Child Adoption
The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis
you can listen to a broadcast by here on Family Life Today here
or check out the web site here
Adoption for kids:
Emma's Yucky Brother by Jean Little (not a yucky book but a yucky title that I don't favor. For siblings already in the home and pertaining to older child adoption).
Rosie's Family Lori Rosove
I love you like Crazy Cakes by Lewis
Horace by Holly Keller
Who are my real parents by D. L. Fuller
Welcome Home forever child by Christine Mitchell (older child adoption)
Little Miss Spider by David Kirk
God Found Us You
A Blessing From Above by Patti Henderson
Family Day:: Celebrating Ethan's Adopti...
Colors come from God Just like me by Carolyn Forche*
Brown Like Me by Noelle Lamperti
Baby book for infant adopted child: